superficiality
2003-04-24

Could someone please explain to me:

Why do I have no problem meeting someone at a club and ending up having sex with them when I really don't know them at all --

BUT

-- If someone I meet online wants to get together specifically to have sex I find that yucky.

Anyone? Help here?

And while we're on the subject of freaky online people, why am I SO superficial when it comes to people I meet online. If you don't look decent in the picture you send me (guys i'm talking about here) I have no interest in further conversing with you. If we're conversing on the friend level, its completely different, I could care less what you look like, but if you're talking about getting together... nope you're out of here. I've also decided I don't like thin guys. Let me rephrase, if you have birdlike legs i'm not going to be interested.

I know i'm no prize, not perfect in any way, but just because of that I should settle for less than i'm interested in? I feel horrible writing something like that... but these people were already borderline on the personality. Its not like i'm looking for perfect, just someone i'm attracted to.

Is that so wrong?

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